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Help me align please... 🙈 » Changing your perception of others or events » 9/08/2020 5:25 am

Hi everybody... hope you are all well and safe!

Has anyone managed to change their general perception of others or events with the Law of Attraction? This is one thing I still can't really wrap my head around since learning more about the "everybody is me pushed out" principle.

When I went out with friends recently, we started comparing each other to characters from the superhero films... and when it came to my turn, everybody almost immediately agreed on me being the "Tony Stark" character, i.e. while there is a lot of good in me, I'm also a more cynical, sarcastic, brooding and occasionally grumpy type of person. This is not the first time a description like this has come up and I've been noticing that I seem to have developed a more deep-rooted negative/pessimistic opinion about other people or events in general. I started to observing my thoughts more actively throughout the day and caught myself focussing on the things I dislike in others like rudeness or selfishness and rarely go into a situation with a highly optimistic mindset.

Are there any ways to change that? More and more I think that I got stuck in a circle here by expecting something negative, then manifesting exactly that and feeling justified about my initial thoughts by a bad outcome.

Help me align please... 🙈 » Creating a better self » 6/29/2020 3:21 am

Thank you so much for your reply, Veronica. That is indeed something I should be doing more.


VeronicaAdmin wrote:

I think it's great you are actively trying to change your results in life, and it sounds like you have done a lot of mindful awareness already which will pay off :D I love that you look at a role model of someone who you'd like to emulate in terms of confidence.  This was a great idea! I would recommend praising yourself for all you have done, instead of feeling like you aren't there yet.  Life is a journey of learning and growing, and continue to challenge yourself in terms of improvement - but don't forget to recognize how far you've come.  I think acceptance and faith within yourself will be the very key to the rest of the success you desire.

Veronica xxoo

LettingGoNow wrote:

Hi all

Hope you are well and keeping safe!

Thanks to Veronica's advise (plus other YouTube channels like Pluto's Gate, Roxy Talks, Shelly Bullard etc.) I started to understand that my SP problems are all about self-image and not the other person.  I was already a bit shy throughout my teenage years and early 20's, but it got really worse over the last couple of years. Even with a number of physical changes like loosing weight and improving my fashion sense, I still felt unattractive and thought that no woman would ever go out with me.
Looking back on the transformation I made already in 2019 after discovering the Law of Attraction, I can say that I'm definitely on the right track. I went from being super needy and insecure to actually understanding that "I am enough" and slowly getting into the "I am the turkey and my SP is the gravy on top" mindset (a phrase from one of Roxy's videos).

Still, I feel like I'm only halfway there and really want to push to get the second part done. This might be a bit weird, but I took a famous actor I really admire for his charisma and confidence in interviews and use him as a role model. I know that I don't look like him, but I

Help me align please... 🙈 » Creating a better self » 6/27/2020 4:28 am

Hi all

Hope you are well and keeping safe!

Thanks to Veronica's advise (plus other YouTube channels like Pluto's Gate, Roxy Talks, Shelly Bullard etc.) I started to understand that my SP problems are all about self-image and not the other person.  I was already a bit shy throughout my teenage years and early 20's, but it got really worse over the last couple of years. Even with a number of physical changes like loosing weight and improving my fashion sense, I still felt unattractive and thought that no woman would ever go out with me.
Looking back on the transformation I made already in 2019 after discovering the Law of Attraction, I can say that I'm definitely on the right track. I went from being super needy and insecure to actually understanding that "I am enough" and slowly getting into the "I am the turkey and my SP is the gravy on top" mindset (a phrase from one of Roxy's videos).

Still, I feel like I'm only halfway there and really want to push to get the second part done. This might be a bit weird, but I took a famous actor I really admire for his charisma and confidence in interviews and use him as a role model. I know that I don't look like him, but I really want to be as self-assured and cool as he comes across whenever you see him. 

Is there any technique I can use to help me with that? Having never really felt like this through my life, it's sometimes difficult to imagine myself to have the same kind of thoughts and feeling as this actor.

Any advise would be much appreciated.

Thanks :-)

Remote Seduction/Influence » Relaxing during the sessions versus intense feelings » 5/21/2020 2:21 pm

Hi Veronica

Thank you very much for your reply. You're right - it's better to do whatever feels right to you.

I also found a video from Caleb just know. In this one he says that we are all calling the shots on what works and what not ourselves. Food for thought :-)

Stay safe!

Remote Seduction/Influence » Relaxing during the sessions versus intense feelings » 5/21/2020 5:15 am

Hi all

I've been using RS and RI (as well as Lanie Steven's Love Spell) on an SP for the last few weeks. We are currently not in touch after a bad breakup, so I can only have faith in my manifestations and trust the universe that it works.

My question for those who have successfully used those techniques is - did you manage to stay in a relaxed state akin to sleep during the session? I can't help but to physacially smile when I see my SP in my mind's eye, followed by an increased heart beat and even tensing up a bit (the arms especially) when my positive feelings get really strong.

Shall I go with the intense feelings for my SP since Neville always said that "feeling is the key" or try to stay calm and relaxed?

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Specific Person: Forgiveness and Communication » 5/30/2019 8:22 am

Hi all
 
I wanted to ask a question regarding manifesting a specific person.
 
I screwed up with a woman I had a huge crush on at work. Due to a few ‘limiting beliefs’ I acted cold around her to hide my feelings at first, though she was quite flirty with me in the beginning. When I finally mustered up enough confidence to approached her, she rejected me. I tried to play it cool, but only shortly after things became awkward between us. We had a few misunderstandings and I over-reacted by being too over-sensitive - i.e. going back to being cold to her.
 
I tried to mend the fences a few weeks later, but (having watched many of Veronica’s videos) I know that I was way too needy and started to ‘chase her’. I’m now in a better place, i.e. I finally got to the ‘there are plenty more fish in the sea’ state of mind. I also managed to forgive myself as I wrote down all the thoughts and feelings I had during the time. I would have given everything to be able to handle the situation in a better way and approach her in a more confident manner. It was one hell of a learning experience and I did a lot of work since then to boost my self-esteem.
 
My only problem is that:
a. I know I caused a lot of the issues between us, by being too shy and on some occasions too sensitive, and
b. the lack of communication on both sides was and still is a major issue.

I really want us to at least become friends again, but she’s giving me the silent treatment at the moment. The last thing she said to me was that it’s not her causing all of this, but me. Yet, it always takes two - and she always reacted to me being cold to her by being grumpy, then suddenly went back to being nice and then became angry with me again when I couldn’t react the way she wanted that quickly – but never ever once tried to communicate to me about this.
 
Do you have any experience in getting someone to forgive you and completely move on from those moments in the past? Which techniques would

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Do you have to "re-new" after doubting? » 5/30/2019 7:32 am

Barbara wrote:

Don't worry too much about it. We are humans, we have our moments, and that's okay. I know that some LOA teachers make it seem that in order to manifest, we always have to be in this 'manically happy' state - but that's humanly not possible, lol. What really matters is your overall vibration, what is dominant. If you're at least 51% positive, you're good to go. Also, the seed of your desire has been planted, it's already growing, so a negative thought won't kill it off, the order won't be cancelled. Just don't stress about it too much, focus on being positive overall.

Hi Barbara. Many thanks for your advise. That gives me indeed some hope for my manifestations. I think the more relaxed I am with my flaws and doubts, the less I will stand in my own way :-)

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Do you have to "re-new" after doubting? » 3/07/2019 10:10 am

Hi PrettyFlamingo

I think I might have phrased it a bit confusingly (...just changed it from "manifesting my desires" to "sending out my desires and wishes to the universe".

It hasn't manifested yet, but I'm still hopeful it will in good time. It's just those weak moments when I suddenly think about the reasons why she doesn't want to be with me which might send out the wrong vibes into the universe... so I feel like I need to send more of my positive thoughts afterwards in order not to have the negative ones to be the vibes that actually manifest.

Thanks :-)

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Do you have to "re-new" after doubting? » 3/07/2019 8:33 am

Hi everybody

I'm a newbie on this forum, so many apologies if this has been asked before.

One of my biggest questions at the moment is... what happens if you have a moment of doubt, or even a "bad day" after sending out your desires and wisehs to the universe?

The reason why I got into the Law of Attraction (as well as finding Veronicas channel) is attracting my crush and over the last few weeks I've been learning so much about focusing on myself, building up self-love and letting go. But I sometimes get doubtful and a bit frustrated by the obstacles that are currently in our way and feel like I have to re-new the manifesting process each time after I have one of those moments.

Would you suggest I'd rather accept those moments and do nothing (i.e. still "letting go") even though I doubted the chance of the desired outcome to come true, or should I do a new visualisation etc. to send out my desires to the universe again? 

Many thanks :-)

 

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