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Law of Attraction Discussion » What's your definition of success? (Kinda LOA related) » 6/13/2018 7:14 pm

I'm curious as to how many of you define success.
Here's how I define it:๐Ÿ’—

โค Being loved by someone you actually love (mutual attraction)

โค Having some kind of income

โค Being social and having friends, or having friends at all

โค The good life.

And I want all of the above.
I won't settle for anyone because I'm lonely.
Love has to be fun and feel great!
I have a few friends but I want to build a bigger circle and continue networking. I am grateful for them, of course.
I want the good life that includes the freedom to do what I want, WHEN I want, using cash.

I absolutely REFUSE to believe that there aren't multiple "soulmates" out there in the world for me that give me butterflies, so I keep on searching for the right people, and it's so important to me that I tick at least THREE off that list above THIS summer.

Finding at least one soulmate and having a summer job (or money in my pocket), and being happy, otherwise, NO, I won't feel like a success.

And maybe it's the conditioning that we have had as children (or at least the Western world) but I've accepted it as such. It's how I see things as a young adult.

Ppl view success in different ways and that's cool, but for me that's how i view success!

So, how do you all view it?

Calling all success stories! ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ » Successful manifestation? » 6/11/2018 10:21 pm

I think I'll start here...
So, I remember on Memorial Day I went for a walk which lasted me over an hour and I passed by the nearby beach and I wanted to walk as far as Lake Shore Drive would take me. Along the way I spotted a lot of red and white clovers.
But my roommate needed me and so I turned right back around, passing by the two parks that the lake surrounds.
So, last week, my roommate, his nephew and I walked to the beach.
Roomie wanted to shoot some photos but we all ended up looking for rocks. I lost my earbuds and decided we'd go to the store for new ones before it close.
Long story short, we left the beach and some yards up, my roomie points out these flowers I'd never noticed before on my way to the beach!!! We walk further towards the shopping area where the store is, and again--the SAME flowers!!! At this point I'm freaking out. My head is spinning, mouth agape!
Why, you ask?
Because the flowers represent something really HUGE...
The namesake of those flowers are my SP's WHOLE FIRST NAME! Their ACTUAL name!
And idk, on the holiday I had the strongest feeling I'd run into these flowers, and I didn't know if they'd even grow in this area, but not this close!!!
They're literally feet from the bus stop we usually take and 2 BLOCKS away from our crib!
How come I'm just NOW noticing them?! LOL!
Isn't that wild?!

Help me align please... ๐Ÿ™ˆ » How to work on these limiting beliefs using scripting? » 3/30/2018 11:50 am

I'm looking to do journalling and scripting. I don't want to use visualization techniques at this time. What scripting techniques can I use to work on these beliefs?:

I'm afraid my love life will never change.
I'm afraid of loving too hard.
I'm afraid of being too vulnerable and getting hurt.
I'm afraid of being too eager.
Sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough for love.

Thanks in advance! ^^

Law of Attraction Discussion » WhatsApp group » 1/29/2018 12:22 am

I messaged you as well! =)

Help me align please... ๐Ÿ™ˆ » In absolute ambivalent state » 9/24/2017 1:08 am

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Gratitude21 wrote:

I'm feeling as if I was the rebound in his life and he has manifested his ex.
Don't know what I'm feeling! Too many emotions working on me simultaneously...anger, betrayal, sadness, love, eagerness...and so on.
I thought of us being together and at times not being together but never thought of him with her.

The best thing to do right now is to stop all thought distract yourself or replace those thoughts with "I love myself" I do that and it helps it replaces the negative thought cause you don't want to fight it it makes it worse. I know right now you feel low and feel like it's never gonna happen right? I felt that way a month ago and started self love and got to a so much better place. Keep doing self love .do not think of yourself as a rebound if you do then you will get just that. Remember that the universe gives us what we think and sometimes it is stuff from previous negative thought patterns but it will pass if you keep up your vibe. I advise right now replace your negative thoughts with affirmations about myself every time something pops up about him or them . Keep working the self love and just if you need to take a break from visualizing and stuff I really advise you do since you aren't feeling great . Please please start there I guarantee you it helps it's not a quick thing it takes time but trust me you can do this I did it and I was feeling depressed a month ago and these two things help and then I was able to visualize and things and stuff got better. It is a process . It's gonna be ok .

How I wish it were that easy to love the self ={

Law of Attraction Discussion » Attracting a person & relationship » 9/24/2017 12:40 am

I personally believe hurt ppl can love hurt ppl

LOA Questions and Teachings ๐Ÿ™‹ » Self Love » 9/23/2017 10:27 pm

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

I don't see it as victim blaming in the slightest. I live with mental illness and currently out of work due to other health reasons, I've been in absolutely horrible and emotionally abusive situations. While I'm not out of the woods with regards to my health I've started to pull myself out of the rut I've been in through learning to love myself for who I am.ย 

Nobody is disputing that good thingsย can come to those who have been down in the dumps and nobody has it together 100% of the time, I live with bipolar disorder, anxiety and have had issues with PTSD in the past so I can absolutely understand and relate to the whole feeling down and out thing, my moods can be awfully inconsistent. There has to be that drive and even a little bit of self-love to pull you out of the rut or situation you're in, don't get me wrong moral support is wonderful and has its place but you cannot help anybody who isn't willing to help themselves from a LOA standpoint or in general.ย 

I have mental illness too, undiagnosed (maybe depression). I find it easier to love others.

LOA Questions and Teachings ๐Ÿ™‹ » Self Love » 9/23/2017 9:55 pm

mugginess wrote:

Here's the thing, that term is thrown along so much. I have had friends going through a break up and the most unstable ones just say, I'm going to focus on "self-love". It's the perfect buzzword in modern psychology. I want to ask, wtf is "self-love"? Tbh, I don't think very many of us can define love as love is an emotion. And when we don't feel that emotion, we start noticing a hole and desperately seek it elsewhere. The thing is love is following your heart and sometimes your heart is jsut stupid when your brain is elsewhere.

If self love is difficult, I say focus on self respect. The girls I was talking about, if I asked them if they respected themselves, I don't know what they would say, but clearly they don't. Respect is an action where you follow your brain. I think it's easier to do actions out of your own self respect, rather than saying "I'm focussing on self love". When you do that, the love will just come naturally.

I do want to focus on myself, just not love myself.
I hope that makes sense.

LOA Questions and Teachings ๐Ÿ™‹ » Self Love » 9/23/2017 9:45 pm

Lifesagas wrote:

People throw the phrase victim blaming around without really understanding what it means. Victim blaming would be saying you not loving yourself is your fault. No-one says that here.

And like Stacey, the reason I know why loving yourself is so important is because I've been at the absolute bottom with my world falling apart (abusive past, PTSD yada yada yada) and self-love and more importantly, self-respect, changed everything for me.

What would have been really damaging for me when I was damaged would have been for people to encourage me to focus on the wrong things when my focus had to be ME. If you're broken, you can't expect someone else or a relationship to fix you, only you can do that. THEN you're in a place to look around and figure out what else you want out of life.

And if someone is mentally ill, this is not the place for them to get help. They need real life, effective help. The forum guidelines say it, Veronica says it......its not being mean, it's being ethical.

I would agree that there isnt true victim-blaming here. One forum notorious for it is Powerful Intentions...
Idk I still feel this notion isn't helpful.
I have no desire to look inward. The furthest to self love is dressing up or making my face up or looking great. Or analyzing my sexuality. No further than that. Its painful.
I usually dont want to be me, and focus on others' problems instead of mine.


Law of Attraction Discussion » This might be an unusual query but... » 9/21/2017 2:20 am

Cynthia wrote:

princessgirl87 wrote:

Are there any free subliminals online for closing your heart or getting rid of the ability to fall in love?
I see so many subliminals geared towards the opposite?
Lol its so amusing...
Anyway, I want to stop falling in love because I feel it's unnecessary...
Is the closest thing, like, a monk of some kind?
Maybe I want to be like a monk.
My life was simpler when I wasnt in love...
Thanks in advance.

P.S.: And DON'T mention SELF LOVE. I'm sure this is the right path.

I know how you feel.
Not subliminals and not free but there is a  hypnosis recording by Rachael Eccles called Feel Nothing. I haven't heard it, and it may be to feel nothing for a specific person. Dick Sutphen has got some altered state recordings that might be suitable on his website. He's got quite a large selection on there, and I've got quite a few. There are some to do with detaching from ending relationships and cutting past ties and many others.
I think maybe you have been hurt and don't want any more pain, and these could help you get over pain you're still feeling from one or more past relationships. One of them worked a treat for not feeling anything any more for my ex-husband, and it had the interesting effect of making me not feel anything for somebody else as well at the same time.

Thanks! Looking at the sites now...
Yes, I have been hurt and dont see an end to my emotional turmoil.

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