Hi Guys.. 

So as I've written several times before, I've been trying to manifest my love back for some time now. I've come A LONG way from when I first started being conscious of my thoughts and LOA. I've cleared a lot, if not all, of my limiting and negative beliefs surrounding myself and relationships. I love myself and my life!! Everyday I'm so happy and see the beauty in everything. I don't have anything to complain about and I never will. I'm doing so much for myself and I couldn't be happier with where I am and how I feel. That being said, my love hasn't returned. We still don't communicate. This doesn't bother me too much because of how wonderful my life is and how great I feel. I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish and I'm mainly focusing on manifesting the life I truly want to live. But I still love him and believe that we're meant to be together. I've attracted many other men recently, but not my love.  

Since I feel great, I feel like he should've returned already. I've unknowingly manifested him back a few times before. Each time I would get into a really good space with myself and he'd be back within a day. This time I feel better than I ever have before and I've gotten absolutely no evidence that he's coming back. I'm starting to think that maybe he really doesn't want anything to do with me. Maybe he's resisting all of the love and good feelings I've been vibrating and sending to  him. Maybe he's trying his best to push and keep me away. Since he hasn't returned, should I just let go of this desire? Do you guys think that since he hasn't returned it's evidence that he really doesn't want me? 

I know I create my own reality. I don't believe these things and I don't want to, but I also don't want to ignore whatever the universe is trying to communicate to me. I keep telling myself that the longer it takes the sweeter the reunion is going to be and that the universe is orchestrating him coming back to me in the most sweet and romantic way. I

Dan I completely agree with your initial post. In my case, I've manifested my ex back 3 times before unknowingly. Each time I felt as if I had no chance but to move on and whenever I did he came back within a matter of days. I didn't do any visualizations, meditations and I didn't even have that much self confidence. Now over two months have passed since I've been trying to intentionally manifest him back. I've been doing visualizations, meditations, acting as if, etc. and I now have more self confidence than I have ever had in my entire life and I haven't seen ANY signs that he's coming back to me. I'm not giving up, but I'm just trying to really let go and focus on other things.

Suzy wrote:

You truly don't believe in LOA. If you did...you would know just because you don't see anything happening...doesn't mean it isn't

Ooooo great point!! Even though it's been months, I feel great and still no sign of my desire manifesting? Seems like everyone sees signs of their desire manifesting along the way. Although, I probably shouldn't be comparing myself. P.S. This is the first thing I've intentionally tried to manifest so I'm new to the process.

Congrats on your success! I love reading about people who have been successful with this! Congrats again I'm so happy for you

sweetlove1990 wrote:

AnythingIsPossible wrote:

That's not rude. I actually really appreciate the constructive criticism, so thank you!! And those are two really good points.
I've been thinking about the 'everyone is you pushed out' concept a lot lately which is why I've been trying to practice self love and really valuing/taking care of myself, but I should probably kick it up a notch. You're also right about absence. I didn't realize it, but that's exactly what I'm doing. I can't continue to notice the absence of him and still manifest. Any suggestions on how to not focus on the absence?

Yes! Do something that takes your mind off of it, or be thankful for what has come. You said everything is manifesting, so clearly you have good vibes, KEEP the vibes UP UP UP UP!!! That's such a good sign if so many things are manifesting! You want this fulfilling loving relationship with this person, I just learned this but yeah sometimes it's nice to have things FAST, but when it comes to love and maybe finding a new career/way to make extra money don't you just want to enjoy the journey? Like just imagine this one day you'll be saying "wow, when I was manifesting him this amazing thing happened, also this other amazing thing happened, and I saw this sign, heard this amazing song, etc" it's like when Abe Hicks says "when you plant the corn do you go "well, corn, where are you??" It's a process you have to water it, it needs love and sunshine! And you wouldnt dig up the seed and say "YOU SEE THAT ORANGE TREE OVER THERE IS SPROUTING WHY ARENT YOU?????"

Just relish and enjoy those manifestations. Each day I'm learning and for the last few days Abe Hicks' "you are where you are" has really been such an important saying. There's always usually a reason to be where you are right now. Enjoy it!

YES! I can't wait for the day I look back on all of this and reflect on how sweet the process was. I love what you said "There's always usually a reason to be where you are righ