| Law of Attraction Discussion » New Veronica Q&A Video » 8/27/2017 8:09 pm |
- YesIWILL
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Elaboration on wanting someone who wants absolutely nothing to do with you, who (from your point of view) you have no chance with anymore, as all romantic feeling is completely lost for good.
That's what I'd like a Q&A on.
| Flying High 🚀💜💫 » Why your situation is not hopeless » 8/26/2017 11:09 am |
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:From reading that last post it's clear you are making this woman responsible for making you, as you put it, "full". And that's the problem. It IS neediness no matter how much you argue to the contrary. You said you've identified the root of your fear too but I'd hazard a guess it goes further back than her. You say your family don't care about you. Do your perceptions of that go back to childhood? Have other women chucked you before her? I think the answers lie there, or at least that's where to start as you probably have limiting beliefs around being unwanted. You've said she was very unattracted to you at the end yet before you said it ended over a misunderstanding. I think you need to be honest with yourself about why she ended it. Did you smother her, for example and then try to make up for it? Did you get angry with her or scare her? And however you behaved, do you understand why?
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And don't think about checking up on her via social media. All it will do is fuel anxiety.
You mused about her being with someone else, deciding he "sucks" and wishing she were with you instead. It's not important if she has someone else. People break up all the time.
You're putting her on a pedestal that she doesn't deserve. Read Mugginess's post about self respect and take those ideas on board.
And I'm going to risk being called judgemental, harsh, rude and the names that have been floating around. No I don't think you're ever going to "get her back". Why? She's not an umbrella you left on the train. You're making her a condition of you living a full life and nobody wants that responsibility. You have to create that for yourself and then people will be drawn to that energy. Right now it's non existent.
It's almost like you're going to have to rub yourself out and draw yourself again because the way you're describing yourself is upsetting. And stop for the time being trying to have faith she'll come back. She won't. Instead create a life that people will wa
| Flying High 🚀💜💫 » Why your situation is not hopeless » 8/25/2017 9:55 pm |
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Staceylouuu91x wrote:YesIWILL wrote:
THank you so much for this. It gives me hope.
However, even if it's been 2 years, she's still ignoring you, and is almost certainly with another guy?Easier said than done but you need to change your core beliefs. Look inside and see why you feel the way you do. Then work on the issues through affirmations, going for walks or whatever you feel the right form of action fo the given situation is.
Thank you Stacey! When I think about her, I feel negative, knowing she doesn't even care about me in any way, etc. So I need to change that. Lately I've been SO tempted to create a secondary facebook to check her profile (I haven't done this before. And since she's blocked me, I haven't looked at anything like that.) but I guess part of me just wants to know if I can find that she's seeing someone else or not because not knowing IS killing me, but also finding out would break me. Just thinking of her with someone else spikes my anxiety through the room to an indescribable degree. So I'm trying to remain calm. Any depression I feel is because of what we had, and how we don't have that now, and (using logic) never will.
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The only thing I can do is try to remain calm, not fear, and trust that she'll come back. I just don't know how to when all evidence points otherwise. I've been trying to find the "root" of this fear, and I know what it is. It's the "fear of the now", and the "fear that she won't come back". Knowing she hates me, or feels indifferent, knowing just how much she's stated she WON'T ever be with me, nor talk to me again., and knowing that at least using logic, she'd never come back after how broken everything is. It causes me depression. I've been trying to break through it, but oddly enough, I don't think I can without her being back in my life as more than a friend. I know that sounds needy, but I don't think it comes from a place of neediness. It comes from a place of loss and missing. And the
| Flying High 🚀💜💫 » Why your situation is not hopeless » 8/24/2017 11:20 am |
- YesIWILL
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THank you so much for this. It gives me hope.
However, even if it's been 2 years, she's still ignoring you, and is almost certainly with another guy?
| Welcome and Hi! 👋🏼 » iM NOT NEW but am back to start my jouney on .... » 8/23/2017 7:45 pm |
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Welcome back!!
| Veronica's Videos/ Other inspirational clips 🎬 » Make someone text you (sometimes works instantly!) » 8/19/2017 2:13 pm |
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Dan2015 wrote:
I noticed a lot of times these things don't work for people. Because they either think loa doesn't work or the technique doesn't work
These things use to not work for me when I was doubtful
It doesn't matter if the person you're trying it ok has no attachment
If you doubt the technique or even loa, it just won't workMaybe that's why it isn't working for me. Thanks man!
| Veronica's Videos/ Other inspirational clips 🎬 » Make someone text you (sometimes works instantly!) » 8/19/2017 12:54 am |
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Dan2015 wrote:
I don't understand why these things work for bsdibakly everyone except you. Weird
Nah, I've heard of it not working for a lot of people :/
| Veronica's Videos/ Other inspirational clips 🎬 » Make someone text you (sometimes works instantly!) » 8/18/2017 10:53 pm |
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Selfloveiskey wrote:YesIWILL wrote:PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Granted, I've not watched the video, but I am guessing it is about attracting a text from someone you have split from? You're saying you can't attract a text from anyone at all - friends, family? Don't you text them or contact in other ways? The context to this might not be relevant to you, it's more about symbiotic relationships than random texts, just have a think about it.
If you are super happy, why can't you text them? My friends and I text back and forth all the time - it's like a game of tennis.No, I know. I've tried it on people who I don't really care about. Not to sounds like a rude person
but I send the intention out there, felt as if it was done, and felt good about it, then let go... then... nothing.But you wanted it to work right? And how long ago was that? Cause it seems like your timing it which means you didn't let go
But I did let go. It literally left my mind. This happened multiple times. Never worked.
| Veronica's Videos/ Other inspirational clips 🎬 » Make someone text you (sometimes works instantly!) » 8/16/2017 8:05 pm |
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:YesIWILL wrote:
Seriously. I can't attract texts from anyone. Even when I'm super happy. Experience makes me feel this is all bull. :I Really trying to avoid jumping to this conclusion...
Granted, I've not watched the video, but I am guessing it is about attracting a text from someone you have split from? You're saying you can't attract a text from anyone at all - friends, family? Don't you text them or contact in other ways? The context to this might not be relevant to you, it's more about symbiotic relationships than random texts, just have a think about it.
If you are super happy, why can't you text them? My friends and I text back and forth all the time - it's like a game of tennis.No, I know. I've tried it on people who I don't really care about. Not to sounds like a rude person
but I send the intention out there, felt as if it was done, and felt good about it, then let go... then... nothing.
| Veronica's Videos/ Other inspirational clips 🎬 » Make someone text you (sometimes works instantly!) » 8/16/2017 7:26 pm |
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Seriously. I can't attract texts from anyone. Even when I'm super happy. Experience makes me feel this is all bull. :I Really trying to avoid jumping to this conclusion...
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