Signs were there 100% but you didnt recognize it. I see signs in different ways. Cars, numbers, name, situation, songs, worlds in document, worlds when someone speaking, colours, dresses, toughts, dreams, stories etc etc.If you ask for specific sign that you will see just those. If you just ask for signs, then it could be whatever.Every day is new day. Try again

Love, L

You can see that there are connection abouth your toughts and current dreams. Maybe it is different dreams but messages are same. God help us thrue dreams, sounds, words. We just need to listen him, and change from what we dont want to what we want

lar019 wrote:

So for the past several days, I've been feeling really good; really positive, and just confident that my ex is coming back.  It's been really delightful and relaxing all at the same time.  I spent a large portion of yesterday just fantasizing about him being with me as we had a 'lazy Sunday' together. 
Anyways, last night, I had several dreams throughout the night - all with a negative tone to them; some plausible, some ridiculous - like me trying to catch a murderer, before she could kill me, kind of ridiculous.  Anyways, then I had a dream where I decided I couldn't take it anymore, and decided to stalk my ex and his new gf.  I watched them go shopping, and just felt awful in my dream at how happy they are.  But when he walked out of the changeroom - he looked ridiculous. He was wearing this AWFUL multi-coloured suit (and he was loving it); had a stupid new haircut, which now I realize that his hair could never do that; and had gained a substantial amount of weight.  He looked TOTALLY different - in fact, I'm pretty sure my ex was a different race in my dream.  And in my dream, I sat there sad and upset, felt defeated, but also kept thinking that I'm no longer into this guy anymore.

I woke up, and kind of just felt confused. I looked at a photo of us together, and I definitely still feel attracted to him; and I'm trying to not get too hung up on this dream.  But I'm wondering if it means anything.  Positive dreams seem to indicate alignment; should I interpret this dream to mean that even though I feel good, and think I'm in alignment, I'm really not and need to re-evaluate?  

Would love to know thoughts on this.  Thanks! 

It need some time to get your desire in subconscious. What you dream is something what is now in subconscious. Why you chase this murderer? Maybe this murderer is your ex and you chase him before she hurt you again.. Just maybe.  Whatever it was your dream it is not how you two are together and happy. Chang

veggiepizzaforever wrote:

confusedone wrote:

"You've bailed on your own plans about 3 times now and it's actually really clear that you don't want to "catch up." Fine by me. I would like my photos back as a reminder of what we had for two years. Have the decency to at least post them. It's not that hard."

He's bailed 3 times and it sucks but he has his reasons and again, THIS COULD BE BETTER FOR YOU because you're both obviously not ready to meet yet. What if you met up and it wasn't what you wanted it to be? No lovely "omg we're back together" scenario? You'll end up crushed. THIS IS A GOOD THING.

Maybe he's busy, maybe he really doesn't want to catch up, maybe other things got in the way. You'll never really know. Change that story!

Dont analize situation over and over again. Analize it once, decide what you dont want and what you want and keep focus on your desire. Think about it. When he will come to you, you will care if he was with another girl? do you care if he was doing this or that? You wont care. Why, because he is yours and past dont mean anything. Someone will say:" Ok, he or she cheated on me or do some bad stuff, how can i go over this."  Answer:" Simple, you just go over, because this was done in past and was just teaching leason. Is he/she guilty because he/she cheated on you? No he/she is not. It is all your fault because you create that he/she cheated on you. Maybe you dont know when but it is 100% sure that you create this. You dont belive, then you dont know LOA, then you dont have faith in LOA and you CANT fix this situation if you dont belive those lines. LOA it is very easy, it is easy to get ex back, to get car of your dream, job, house, vacation or what ever you want. Nothing have end until you decide it. If you want him back, than start creating this story, if you want new man, create another story. It is just what you decide. Right now you are in mode where you cant create him back, because you repeat your old story over

Hy
I know your feeling. Today it is exactly three months from my broke up, so we are in same timeframe, and situation is very similar :D Lets go together out of this situation :D  What i am doing. I do stuff which put me in good mode. I read a lot of LOA books, sucess stories, read this forum, teach other friends about LOA to help them, i have few friends and co workers which will help me when i have bad day. I will start do few things which i want to do it in past, and of course i think about her almost all day, but i have just positive toughts. I pretend that she is with me. I talk with her, i make room for her in my bed, when i have to choose between two things i always ask her for her opinion etc etc. Usually i dont have feelings that she is not with me, but there are some days where i have this feeling. Every day i give a lot of gratitude to GOD because she is back with me, she loves me etc.... 
My advice is do what you love to do and forget current situation. If you do this i can guarante that he will broke up with her, come to you, apologize and reconcile with you. If you want you can have this situation.

Love, L