Flying High πππ« » Be honest to yourself! » 12/08/2017 8:23 am |
Sanshi wrote:
This is my 200th post and I want to use it to share something I've learned on this incredible journey.
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Most people here stumbled over LoA because they desperately wanted an ex back. The knowledge about LoA is a great gift but getting back an ex is not the easiest thing to get started with LoA - in fact I think it's one of the hardest.The concept of LoA is simple to understand but to really embody it is a completely different thing. You have to first really believe in it and to get benefit out of it on a daily basis you have to change your thoughts - not only about the ex but about the grumpy bus driver, the annoying teens on the street and the bitchy colleague, because if you don't do it they all affect your vibration and that again affects your manifestations.
Something many people don't want to hear in the beginning is: It will most probably take time until he/she is back! I know I wrote a post about the time it takes until something manifests and I said that you don't have to wait for anything and it may sound like a contradiction to my own post but it's not. The vibration of most (if not all) people after a breakup is all over the place. From this position it's IMPOSSIBLE to get someone back. If you decide to use LoA after a breakup to manifest a reconciliation you have three possible ways you can take:
Way No. 1: You decide to take the time to first work on yourself. You take the time to heal and get over the broken relationship. After you have analysed what your wrongs and what you want to do better next time you COMPLETELY drop the old relationship, all your stories about it and your ex (for a while). Your focus is on getting back on your feet and becoming your happiest version. The most important thing is that you do all of this for YOU (I know that's nearly impossible in the beginning of this journey). Because you are worth it and the most important person in your life. I can't say how long it takes to get to your happiest version. I
Law of Attraction Discussion » Cherished » 12/07/2017 9:58 pm |
I've spent a lot of this evening reading Cherished's posts here on the forum. She's not active anymore (and hasn't been active for some time), but she has posted a lot of REALLY great messages. They've helped raise my vibe and belief so I thought I'd post this and maybe her words can help someone else. The link is below. Enjoy!
Law of Attraction Discussion » Is It Right? Please Share Your Opinion » 12/06/2017 6:33 pm |
Sanshi wrote:
1) It's possible, but not from where you are at the moment. If you can make it a reality depends on if you can change.
2) You assume that he is the perfect match for her, that she is happy with him and that a breakup would necessarily cause her pain. Drop that. You don't know how this will happen. There are a ton of scenarios where she doesn't suffer because of the breakup. She finds out she is gay, she is secretly still in love with her ex and goes back to him, she joins a monastery, she just isn't in love with him and realises that after a while. If you don't want to cause her pain, imagine her happy.
You said your fear came true. That's no universe telling you anything. That's LoA working. You get what you expect. It's that simple. Has nothing to do with what you should do or shouldn't or what's best for you or whatever. It means nothing. It means that you create your reality, that's it.
Wow. You're right. I was thinking way too deeply into this. I mean it's the Universe's job to figure out the "how" anyway and I'm manifesting for the 'highest good of all involved' so everything will work out perfectly. Thanks so much for your reply
Law of Attraction Discussion » Is It Right? Please Share Your Opinion » 12/06/2017 5:38 pm |
Hi again guys!
I've been intentionally trying to manifest my love back since we split in April 2017. I unintentionally manifested him back twice before April 2017 and thought this time would be no different. In fact, I thought it'd be easier because I now know about the LOA. In this case, I think too much information was a bad thing. I became obsessed and was in a constant state of lack, worry, fear, desperation, anxiety etc. I was always checking social media and trying to micromanage the situation instead of believing and allowing. My absolute worst fear came true this past Sunday when he made it official to the world that he's dating another girl by posting a picture of them on Instagram.
Now I'm struggling with the belief that 1) it's possible and 2) it's right to manifest him back into my life because he's happily in love with another woman. If I manifest him back, what about her? I don't want to cause her any pain. Although I manifested many parts of this third party and subsequent relationship, maybe this is the Universe telling me I can't have it, to give up and move on. Maybe this is its way of forcing me to let go so that it can manifest.
What do you all think? Is it now wrong to manifest him back? Is it not going to happen now that he's completely moved on? What are your thoughts on manifesting someone who's in a relationship with another?
Sidenote: I've REALLY let go since seeing the picture. I've stopped listening to LOA YouTube videos and constantly thinking about manifesting him. (I used to listen/watch videos every time I was in the car and all night after I came home from work). I've decided to apply to graduate school and am finding other ways to get my mind off of it. It hurts to know that he's with her, but I've asked God for strength and peace. I'm on Day 3 of Veronica's challenge, but I'm doing it more with the intention to get really happy, not to attract him back.
Help me align please... π » Please help.... I need the encouragements... » 12/06/2017 1:05 pm |
I was checking social media because I was trying to gauge the progress of my manifestation. I was looking for clues that it was "in progress" or "working". I didn't have complete trust and faith in God and the Universe to deliver to me the best possible outcome in the most amazing way. Also, I missed him. I hadn't been in communication with him for a while and checking his social media felt like I was still connected to him in some way.Β
That has definitely changed though. Seeing that picture was the last straw for me. It was a huge slap in the face from the Universe, telling me to get my sh*t together and completely focus on myself. I was pushing against what I really wanted this entire time instead of living in a space of flow and allowing.Β
Help me align please... π » Please help.... I need the encouragements... » 12/06/2017 9:47 am |
I did this. I checked my guy's instagram everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, for a few weeks hoping that he wouldn't post a picture with the girl he's dating because, to me, posting on instagram makes it official. Well, this past Sunday I checked his profile like I always did and there was the picture. I was devastated, but I've accepted reality. I created it. Right when I saw the picture, I knew what I'd done and have since decided to stay off social media all together.Β
Now, I'm working on creating something different, something better, something positive, something that I actually want. You can do the same. LOA is ALWAYS working.Β
LOA Questions and Teachings π » The line » 12/04/2017 8:06 pm |
Kiba101 wrote:
I think if we think that our ex thinks this about us then it will be reality. We are our own obstacle! So itβs shifting that thought to βI am living life, I am not waiting around. My ex is coming to me!β. I think the important thing is to feel confident, go out and have fun, try new things and just enjoy life. And I think your love will sense this shift immediately! And then be drawn to you like a moth to a light haha
I love that thought! I'm going to make it an affirmation! Thank
Veronica's 25 Day Challenge » 25 day challenge third time is the charm! » 12/04/2017 8:04 pm |
Me!!!! I'm on Day 1. This is my first time doing the challenge. I'm excited to love myself even more and become a much happier person
Help me align please... π » He's With Another - (Looking for Encouragement) » 12/04/2017 2:37 pm |
I get emotional ALL the time, but I decide not to stay there. My default state used to be wallowing in self sabotaging thoughts and depression. Whenever I feel the urge to go back to that comfortable space I remember that only I have complete control over my thoughts. My outside circumstances don't control my emotions because I don't let them. I'm always forgive myself whenever I have those negative thoughts and then overwhelm myself with kindness and compassion. It's great.Β
Help me align please... π » He's With Another - (Looking for Encouragement) » 12/04/2017 11:00 am |
I read a success story on the secret website where a woman said being conflicted about wanting her man back is what was blocking her manifestation. And once she decided that she definitely wanted him and put in the self love work to bring him in, there he was.
When you think about it like that, she's right. If your desire and feelings waiver, and you 100% always manifest what you desire and feel, you're only manifesting more confusion. I do the exact same thing. My heart wants my guy, but when I get on self love high I tell myself that it's wrong to want him and I try to talk myself out of it. Now I'm working on embracing my truth and not being ashamed of it, no matter my state of mind. You can do it too!