honeebee wrote:

This is just one of my go to messages I read from Ace because his posts are so inspiring and helpful when you are feeling a little off. Really good stuff

Thanks a lot for this❤

Creeeeestal wrote:

Wow! This was actually something I needed to see! THank you Ace! 

No problem at all❤ feels good to know it helped you.

Tumom wrote:

Wow .. I'm speechless , bringing tears to my eyes . Seems each and every word was spoken to me . Thank you , I won't give up

I feel really good about the fact that it helped you a lot. There's no reason for you to give up, at the end, you'll get something out of it. Be happy❤

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Reminds me of something Mr.B said...just find the feeling of love without needing anything to happen...just because things don't happen the way you want right away doesn't mean you messed up...there's a bigger picture...let in the love feeling and just be happy with that...and then it all comes together.

You finally said something so good and true without making jokes of it.

This is so good.

You don't have to talk to your specific person to make them love you or unblock you. You can simply give them a bit of space and talk to them subconsciously and also naturally they will miss all the good things about you.

Congrats, i hope this success leads you to have more patience for your other desires because eventually, they will come.

Sanshi wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

I just want to stop all of this and be happy again.

What does hold you back? You can decide to stop that and if you aren't able to feel happy in the process, the process won't work anyway. So it's a waste of time and energy.

There is something I learned lately. We are all trying way too hard. The more we want something the more we "work" to make it happen and the more we work the less it happens. It's a game and what happens when you try too hard in a game? It isn't fun anymore. But fun is the only reason to play this game, so it's completely crazy. You play the game to have fun, but you don't allow yourself to have fun..wtf? What I want to say with this is if you have to choose between feeling good and chasing a guy, choose feeling good. Don't put another person first. Why would you even chase a guy for two years? Why would you choose to feel that something is missing for you to be happy for two long years?

What I have learned on this journey is that I am done with chasing guy. Do I like my current guy? Yes. Does it look good between us? Not sure right now. Am I attached to us working out? No. What will I say, if it doesn't work out? Next! I am done with chasing anybody and honestly, it feels so freeing.

Thats a very good point Sanshi.

I just want to add that getting your specific person is possible. There are stories of people who had a crush in school and end up being together after 10 years. Possibilities are endless.

You are right about choosing happiness over another person. If the game isn't fun, sometimes, you also change the disk.