Cynthia wrote:

Anita wrote:

But I just want know how it was solved.  Where we lived together? In your or his country?

 

My experience or that of anybody else has absolutely no relevance to what you can achieve or not. What you are looking for is for reassurance. No amount of reassurance from me, or anybody, will convince you. You've got to convince yourself.

No because when I read stories where people never manifest their dreams so I will afraid that it doesnt work and I never read some stories when people manifest theri sp even thought he working in another country....but when I will read stories where people was success and they manifest a relationship even thought their sp live in diff.country and  they manifested their sp come back in their cointry so I will easier believe...its easier  believe I can manifest a relationship with sp if he live  in my country ...this is why I need read stories when sp work in diffrerent country and people manifested he started live in their country...this is why I wanted know how your situation was solved and  where you lived with him when you manifested married because I know you just imagine you are married and thats all..when I will imagine Im maried so its can manifest that I will live in his country or that  he will always work away..  when I dont will imagine other details....

Cynthia wrote:

You're welcome. Before I married my now former husband we were living about 5,000 miles apart in different countries and were writing to each other by snail mail probably about once each a month, and we probably talked briefly on the phone a couple of times, so it was really not much more than a pen friendship to begin with. I had left London before that and was planning to move back but had nowhere to stay. He had invited me to visit him, so that gave me somewhere to stay, at least temporarily, Before too long, I think it was 5 or 6 weeks after I arrived, he asked me to marry him, which I did a few months later. I'm not quite sure how to put this because it might sound contradictory. I sort of looked upon it as a visit with no commitment of any kind to stay or marry him so as to let things develop naturally once I'd got there and could have left at any time but had already done all the imaginal work of being married to him before I got there so everything just fell into place. We were married for a long time, but not now. With my current SP, almost anything that could be viewed as an obstacle is a part of the current situation, and I've been called 'delusional' by a non-believer about it, which I take as a compliment.

 

And what happened with   distance ? Did you just imagine you are married and you manifest it  and he started live in your country or you in his country?

Cynthia wrote:

Are you saying that you can imagine getting a text from him talking about some future event but you can't imagine him being there with you in person interacting in such a way that indicates you are happily together and that he leaves the house each working day to go to his job? That's what living in the end means: imagining and feeling like you have your desire now, that it is already an accomplished fact, living it in your mind like it is going on right now, that it is real right now, and having faith that your imaginal acts will eventually create this situation in your outward experience if you persevere in doing this.

 But I dont want live with him yet..I just want a relationship with him  so I dont want imagine that he every morning leaves our house:D..can I imagine that he leaves his house in my town? :D ..I really dont know..what if I dont will imagine nothing and I  just keep my mental diet that he work  here and we have a relationship? I read some succes st. when people dont imagine nothing and they just keep their mental diet...what  would you do, if you were  in my situation and  you want manifest this my desire?

Cynthia wrote:

Getting a text message, no matter what it says, is not the same thing as having the relationship with the person. A text message is also just words, and words without actions are empty, worthless, and mean nothing. I can't even tell you how many people I have known who say one thing and then do another, but it has been a great many people. If you live in the end of having the relationship and persist with that, you are letting it happen in a way that may not even occur to you as a possibility. It takes less effort than trying to manifest a text and then another one or trying to manifest other steps you think you need to take along the way.

 
but its way too that he will text me he want a relationship with me etc and we will have a relationship...why not.. yes I know too who say one thing and then do another but it jus everyone is you pushed out too right? I can intend that people always do what they say.....and If I want a manifest my sp work in my country and a relationship with him so I cant just live in the end that I have a relationship with him because it doesnt mean that he will work in my country too..

I would like read some ss about manifest spec.person live in the same country. Because my sp working in different countrry and I want he work in my country and be a satisfied with a payment here..