Ex/Specific Person Discussion » 20 years and 2000 miles with my Ex » 9/05/2019 4:17 am |
Cynthia wrote:
Anita wrote:
But I just want know how it was solved. Where we lived together? In your or his country?
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My experience or that of anybody else has absolutely no relevance to what you can achieve or not. What you are looking for is for reassurance. No amount of reassurance from me, or anybody, will convince you. You've got to convince yourself.
No because when I read stories where people never manifest their dreams so I will afraid that it doesnt work and I never read some stories when people manifest theri sp even thought he working in another country....but when I will read stories where people was success and they manifest a relationship even thought their sp live in diff.country and they manifested their sp come back in their cointry so I will easier believe...its easier believe I can manifest a relationship with sp if he live in my country ...this is why I need read stories when sp work in diffrerent country and people manifested he started live in their country...this is why I wanted know how your situation was solved and where you lived with him when you manifested married because I know you just imagine you are married and thats all..when I will imagine Im maried so its can manifest that I will live in his country or that he will always work away.. when I dont will imagine other details....
Ex/Specific Person Discussion » 20 years and 2000 miles with my Ex » 9/04/2019 1:32 pm |
But I just want know how it was solved. Where we lived together? In your or his country?
Ex/Specific Person Discussion » 20 years and 2000 miles with my Ex » 9/04/2019 12:27 pm |
Cynthia wrote:
You're welcome. Before I married my now former husband we were living about 5,000 miles apart in different countries and were writing to each other by snail mail probably about once each a month, and we probably talked briefly on the phone a couple of times, so it was really not much more than a pen friendship to begin with. I had left London before that and was planning to move back but had nowhere to stay. He had invited me to visit him, so that gave me somewhere to stay, at least temporarily, Before too long, I think it was 5 or 6 weeks after I arrived, he asked me to marry him, which I did a few months later. I'm not quite sure how to put this because it might sound contradictory. I sort of looked upon it as a visit with no commitment of any kind to stay or marry him so as to let things develop naturally once I'd got there and could have left at any time but had already done all the imaginal work of being married to him before I got there so everything just fell into place. We were married for a long time, but not now. With my current SP, almost anything that could be viewed as an obstacle is a part of the current situation, and I've been called 'delusional' by a non-believer about it, which I take as a compliment.
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And what happened with distance ? Did you just imagine you are married and you manifest it and he started live in your country or you in his country?
All Challenges Here! πͺπΌπ » Manifesting A Text Challenge? » 9/02/2019 10:04 am |
Cynthia wrote:
I would (and do in my own case) imagine things being exactly the way I want them to be as though they are happening now with the knowledge and faith that what I am doing in my mind will eventually create my outward experience. I don't say one thing and then do something else myself.
I was married for a very long time to someone I imagined being married to, and I also imagined wearing a wedding ring before I actually was. This was long before I ever heard of Neville or living in the end.
But nobody is forcing you to do anything. Do what you like.
Β So I want be with him, I want go out with him or just be with him in bed and watch tv and other things ...but this imagination is not mean that he work in my country, because this things I can have with him when he is in my country for a few days ...so this is why I wanted imagine a text or words that he come back to my country forever
All Challenges Here! πͺπΌπ » Manifesting A Text Challenge? » 9/02/2019 9:36 am |
Cynthia wrote:
Are you saying that you can imagine getting a text from him talking about some future event but you can't imagine him being there with you in person interacting in such a way that indicates you are happily together and that he leaves the house each working day to go to his job? That's what living in the end means: imagining and feeling like you have your desire now, that it is already an accomplished fact, living it in your mind like it is going on right now, that it is real right now, and having faith that your imaginal acts will eventually create this situation in your outward experience if you persevere in doing this.
Β But I dont want live with him yet..I just want a relationship with him so I dont want imagine that he every morning leaves our house:D..can I imagine that he leaves his house in my town? :D ..I really dont know..what if I dont will imagine nothing and I just keep my mental diet that he work here and we have a relationship? I read some succes st. when people dont imagine nothing and they just keep their mental diet...what would you do, if you were in my situation and you want manifest this my desire?
All Challenges Here! πͺπΌπ » Manifesting A Text Challenge? » 9/02/2019 5:12 am |
But how? For me its easier imagine that he tell me or text me he come back to my country and he found a perfect job here ..but you tell that its not a live in the end ..so I dont know how live in the end that he work in my country.. i have a mental diet and I still repeat if I have a doubts that we have a relationship and he working in my country
All Challenges Here! πͺπΌπ » Manifesting A Text Challenge? » 9/02/2019 4:40 am |
Cynthia wrote:
Getting a text message, no matter what it says, is not the same thing as having the relationship with the person. A text message is also just words, and words without actions are empty, worthless, and mean nothing. I can't even tell you how many people I have known who say one thing and then do another, but it has been a great many people. If you live in the end of having the relationship and persist with that, you are letting it happen in a way that may not even occur to you as a possibility. It takes less effort than trying to manifest a text and then another one or trying to manifest other steps you think you need to take along the way.
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but its way too that he will text me he want a relationship with me etc and we will have a relationship...why not.. yes I know too who say one thing and then do another but it jus everyone is you pushed out too right? I can intend that people always do what they say.....and If I want a manifest my sp work in my country and a relationship with him so I cant just live in the end that I have a relationship with him because it doesnt mean that he will work in my country too..
All Challenges Here! πͺπΌπ » Manifesting A Text Challenge? » 9/02/2019 3:55 am |
I dont understand, why we cant want manifest things a specific way..becuase I read a many success stories where people imagine a specific text from sp and they get a specific text ..so why we cant imagine that our sp text us they want us back etc ...if jist we create our reality and events..its not a universe who manifest a things for us his way...
Law of Attraction Discussion » some success stories about manifest sp living the same country? » 8/15/2019 4:03 am |
I would like read some ss about manifest spec.person live in the same country. Because my sp working in different countrry and I want he work in my country and be a satisfied with a payment here..
Help me align please... π » Is it possible? Help with my block! » 7/27/2019 3:36 am |
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Please remember everyone that this is a discussion board, and therefore we will find a variety of views and observations. It's up to everyone to read comments and make their own conclusions. I wouldn't expect spoon feeding direction or recipes. We will find a selection of responses and not everyone will agree. I'm sure there is no intention to confuse anyone, but there is room for discussion without argument.
For myself, I will give my own view on something but would never direct someone. We need to have a space for healthy debate without argument or conflicts.
As a moderator I will remove posts that are irrelevant and disruptive, but not those that are part of healthy debate such as Kasper's (and indeed my own). That is not confusing, misdirection or in contradiction of law of attraction or conscious creation. Instead it's mature discussion. My comment was around considering why you want something and there's nothing wrong with that. It's something I would ask myself before starting to manifest something as I feel it's important to me to know that. But that is my own approach, not advice, and not contradicting conscious creation.
As an example relating to the original post, it's entirely possible that the guy being discussed was fresh from a break up and not over his ex. It's also entirely possible for Olive to achieve a relationship with the guy (living in the end, mental diet, changing your chatter and so on) as Fizzy has pointed out.
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I think that Every comment should be delete if have nothing with loa..its not helping what he wrote ..Its just do confusion and it create negative beliefs that her sp never change and she should be move on..I dont like if I read advice who has nothing with loa..in the past when I wanted advice and you commented from non loa perspective so I didnt feel better because this type advice I can read on other forum where people dont know loa..Β