| Scripting 📝 » It happened » 9/20/2017 3:11 pm |
- Cynthia
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sillyromantic wrote:woohoo! so happy for you! you did it!
Funny story.. I worked hard to manifest my ex back for months and recently I did but in a platonic way and he's still with the rebound (which I doubt is going to last anyway) but now that he's back in my life and texting me I'm also reminded that I deserve better now that I value myself more and I'm actually finally ready to move on and wish him well on his way. I realize now again why this relationship didn't work and all the red flags I forgot about with him being bipolar and I'm sure that he's now having a manic episode of seeing everything as perfect before it will come crashing back down again like it often does for him. (remember - things are not always as they seem) It's funny how you want something back so badly and when it is back in front of you it helps you realize that you don't really want that, just the connection you once shared with that person. Vest of luck to you with your boyfriend though, I'm sure your situation is much different :-)
I thought it had actually happened as well due to the way it's written, but apparently it is just scripting. I've seen other people's similar successful stories that were true, not scripting, which is another reason I had thought it had happened.
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Past success and new questions » 9/20/2017 12:43 pm |
- Cynthia
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If it were me, I would visualise things being the ideal way I wanted them to be, ignoring outward appearances. Remember, you've got to be happy with your own life and not base all of your happiness on only being with another person.
Also, Neville Goddard said and proved from examples that you can influence other people's lives in a positive way. For example, there was a man who was unhappy at his job and resigned but really needed the money, and his friend visualised him being gainfully employed and making 25% more money, and he went immediately from the old job to the new one with that exact pay rise.
| LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Past success and new questions » 9/20/2017 12:27 pm |
- Cynthia
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You haven't been clear about what you want to achieve.
| Health and Wellbeing » Help achieving orgasm » 9/20/2017 1:46 am |
- Cynthia
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kylieace wrote:
I have never been able to achieve orgasm, I have tried since I was a teenager, many different ways and with a lot of exploration and it hasn't happened for me, it is frustrating and I always assumed I would get there eventually but I still can't reach it. I thought that perhaps Louise Hay would have had some affirmations for it in her heal her life book but unfortunately I haven't found anything. I have been vibing high (no pun intended lol) for quite some time now expressing gratitude for all aspects of myself and my sexuality, I have been saying my own affirmations and I have made a huge amount of progress in letting go of past issues that have affected my life but I have not come any closer to getting there.
I think Lanie Stevens has an mp3 meditation on that subject on her website.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » Advice needed! :) » 9/19/2017 8:58 pm |
- Cynthia
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:Cynthia wrote:whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Hi all!
Not sure if this is the correct place on the forum to post this question, but I'll try it anyway. Please let me know if I should be posting this elsewhere.
So, my POI and I were in contact a little over 2 weeks ago. We were catching up and it was a friendly and light conversations on both ends (I initiated contact on his birthday). Anyway, I was being playful and said "we should get a drink sometime to celebrate our birthdays" and he had responded "sounds good
" Again, this was back on September 7th. BUT, I haven't heard from him since that day. So my question is: should I initiate a text to him again about a drink or should I try to manifest him initiating contact for the drink? I am SO confused what to do. I don't want to appear needy/desperate. However, I don't want to miss an opportunity to meet up with him since he already pretty much agreed to it.
Any advice would be extremely appreciated Not that I'm any authority, but I think if it were me under the circumstances you've described that I would contact him because otherwise it could be a missed opportunity. He's already, as you say, pretty much agreed to it. I actually am starting to think that too much emphasis has been made on no contact and trying to manifest the other person doing everything when, at least in certain circumstances, such as yours, I think, I don't think that's necessary. It's up to you, but I think I would contact him.
Another thing to think about is that you've already been in contact with him, so the no contact shouldn't make any difference.
You do make a good point. We have been in contact. Via text on 3 occasions since June actually now that I think about it. I just feel like it's no skin off his back right now if we don't meet up for a drink. Meaning it wasn't his idea, so if it doesn't happen it's not a big deal. Plus I was the one that suggested it, so maybe I should be the
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| Help me align please... 🙈 » Minor Setback... » 9/19/2017 8:53 pm |
- Cynthia
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
I think you've got a good plan in place! And my most recent contact with my POI was due to his birthday. This sounds like a good sign! If I were in your shoes, I would give it a shot. It'll help you carry on.You won't have regrets about not trying it. It'll be helpful to you.
Just a sidenote- how often have you been visualizing?? I forget if I even asked you this before.I think you're right. I think it will help me carry on. I definitely felt the need to take some tangible action apart from my imaginings. It's the uncertainty of whether he'll even get the message that's the most worrisome part of it. I can't believe that he would be so cold and cruel as to ignore me if he does get the message.
Lately I haven't been doing much visualising. I've been taking a break from it, but for most of the time I was doing a lot of it, usually once a day or more, and I was using some of Lanie Stevens' mp3s, most often the PW. I occasionally used the BWD, but I think from what I've read that if you want to have real love rather than somebody only wanting a sexual relationship, PW is probably the one to use most of the time. I sometimes just visualise on my own without any recordings. Sometimes I pretend like he's with me and talk to him like he is, and I've got a picture of him that I sometimes talk to like he's there.
What sorts of visualising have you been doing and for how long? I don't think you ever mentioned, or at least I don't remember it.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » Minor Setback... » 9/19/2017 8:41 pm |
- Cynthia
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Cynthia,
My apologies, I forgot I did not respond to this. And I am very sorry to hear that you've been ill. I hope you recover VERY quickly!! Honestly, it sounds like you need to focus on YOU right now! I think you need to get yourself better and the rest will fall into place. I am REALLY trying to be much more positive in general. But the crazy thing is, I am actually starting to believe it. Once you're good in all aspects regarding yourself, the Universe WILL deliver. I've been reflecting on everything that I've wanted and gotten throughout the years and it's always been when I'm in a good place with myself. I don't mean to make it about me, I am just trying to think out loud and also show you how I've benefited in the past.
As for the last part of your previous post, I think this might be your "inspired action." If you don't mind involving this other person to assist you with getting a message to your POI, then why not. You said it yourself that your POI might think you want nothing to do with him. It's better to get all the cards on the table. What do you have to lose? NOTHING! I'd say go for it. But, only if you want to.It's better to clear the air!Thanks so much for your kind wishes. I agree with you that things are much more likely to go your way when you're feeling good about yourself. I've been working on self love for a while, and I have been feeling a lot better about myself.
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I think that trying to contact my POI through that other person might be inspired action. Not that he'll get the message that soon, or perhaps even at all, but it's his birthday tomorrow. I haven't spoken to him for over nine months, so in this period of time, any ill feelings have had some time to lessen and not be fresh wounds any more. I thought it couldn't hurt. I really don't have anything to lose. I've been working on it for so many months by my imagination, that I felt at this point that it wouldn't hurt anything to try by other mean
| Help me align please... 🙈 » Advice needed! :) » 9/19/2017 8:08 pm |
- Cynthia
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Hi all!
Not sure if this is the correct place on the forum to post this question, but I'll try it anyway. Please let me know if I should be posting this elsewhere.
So, my POI and I were in contact a little over 2 weeks ago. We were catching up and it was a friendly and light conversations on both ends (I initiated contact on his birthday). Anyway, I was being playful and said "we should get a drink sometime to celebrate our birthdays" and he had responded "sounds good" Again, this was back on September 7th. BUT, I haven't heard from him since that day. So my question is: should I initiate a text to him again about a drink or should I try to manifest him initiating contact for the drink? I am SO confused what to do. I don't want to appear needy/desperate. However, I don't want to miss an opportunity to meet up with him since he already pretty much agreed to it.
Any advice would be extremely appreciated Not that I'm any authority, but I think if it were me under the circumstances you've described that I would contact him because otherwise it could be a missed opportunity. He's already, as you say, pretty much agreed to it. I actually am starting to think that too much emphasis has been made on no contact and trying to manifest the other person doing everything when, at least in certain circumstances, such as yours, I think, I don't think that's necessary. It's up to you, but I think I would contact him.
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Another thing to think about is that you've already been in contact with him, so the no contact shouldn't make any difference.
| Help me align please... 🙈 » Minor Setback... » 9/19/2017 11:48 am |
- Cynthia
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Yeah, I have to agree with you. I'm not sure I can believe that they want you since you're wanting them. I wonder if there's factual proof regarding that. I mean people have crushes every day. That doesn't mean anything. How would this be any different?
You have to do what you feel comfortable doing. For me, as much as I want my POI back, I am not shutting down an opportunity if it comes my way. "I want him, or something better" is my motto I am trying to live by. I just feel like it's still an attachment issue, at least on my end. I'm still living in a place of lack. I don't know how to live in the end result if I'm not actually with him in the physical realm. How about you? Do you think you're still attached?
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Right now is not the best time for me to make any decisions. I've been and am too ill to care right now. Attached, detached, I think it's all a matter of opinion. I like to have evidence that things are true. Many claims have been made, but where's the evidence? Neville Goddard is the one I most listen to and believe because he actually experienced what he taught other people to do and explained how he did it. He's a lot more believable to me than almost anybody else because of this. However, even Neville said contrary things on the subject of attracting a specific person. He did it himself and told another lady how to do it and she did it successfully, but in another lecture he said he'd gone to many weddings where the bride had been insistent that she only wanted a specific man and was marrying somebody else. When I feel better maybe I'll start working on my POI again, but I have been in two minds recently of whether I even want to. I do still want him, but I'm worn out, so it's probably easier and less stressful to meet somebody new. It's been a long time, and I had a lot more faith in the past than I do now, given the lack of results. It's hard to maintain faith when nothing changes. The more time that passes the more
| Help me align please... 🙈 » Minor Setback... » 9/18/2017 9:29 pm |
- Cynthia
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whitebutterflies11 wrote:
Oh wow! So when was the last time you've heard from him? And you're trying to manifest him back, correct?
I have my ups and downs. I want to stay positive that he's coming back. I just get myself so worried sometimes.
He rang me on either 7 or 9 December, when he told me his big news last instead of first. Later in December he rang but decided against it and put the phone down and was already gone when I answered. Yes, I have been trying to attract him back since April. I didn't think he'd cut me off the way he did and thought he'd be in contact again long ago.
What I have a problem believing is when other people claim that the person you want wants you too or you wouldn't want them. How do they know that? What proof do they have that that's true? If he wants me so much, why haven't I heard from him? I still want him, but sometimes I think maybe I need to put a time limit on it, otherwise I could be waiting indefinitely. I am just very tired of making the effort. It's been almost 7 years since he first came into my life, then ignored me for a long time, then came back and then left again.
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