the true is you with this post are perpetually creating this idea... So use loa and imagine a better forum instead of being critical

I just come back to this forum after a year and maybe a half can't remember. All I know is back then Wow everything was helping each other. The forum was little still and every now and then was someone new that was warmly welcomed And when I finally had my man back I said thanks and goodbye.
You cannot stay here forever if you wanna finally attract you man/woman because if you are here ALL the time, you are still lacking him or her in your life. So I really believe it's healthy. My journey was a combination of asking here for help, talking here about my advances and about my fails too and hearing that everything will be OK but I needed to let go and stop worring. So I didn't log in months andown lived my life. School, family, friends and sometimes dating and spending time in only date profiles. When you stop worries you can do that because no matter what you know finally your day will come and maybe if he/she doesn't come back you are happy still because will find someone better.

At least that's why I think it's OK if things aren't very active. Look, if they aren't participating here is because they are already in happy relationships with their exes. At least that is my case.
I came back because missed some friends here but haven't talked to them. I'm  still with my boyfriend and everything is amazing

Yet I don't wanna logg here a lot to not bring negative thoughts. But I wanna help still and not worry about things like that.

What a disgusting picture, why do you wanna stay in the middle of such crappie relationship. I'm sorry but Love yourself and let them have their kind of life. One day he's gonna see...why leave you for a cheating person who was with his cousin, it's impossible for them to keep the facade, all his family is gonna resent them so they won't be longer or maybe as long as that woman keeps her degradation and low value and as long as that man realize he needs better. I swear to you that is gonna happen. So you live your life to the fullest, go on dates, get over him, be beautiful and love will find you.

Hi I am with my exboyfriend.(I hate to call him ex)
We have been together for 8 months now. Serious relationship and marriage oriented. I know I am gonna marry him and will say I can't be more happy.

He broke it up on May 2015 and I was a mess. He was hot and cold and I was willing to accept crumps and bad behavior because I thought I loved him. But I needed to love myself.
Acting as if is really difficult when you don't see any signal specially if your ex is being rude or dating someone else.
So what I did was resignation. If you can accept to live without him , he will come back. And you can't fake it. You have to live your life expecting love will knock on your door and date, meet people and go places, be happy. Imagine you are in a happy relationship but don't say with who. I know it , I tried everything. Just move on and when he comes back you will decide if YOU want him back. Please move on. I know what I am talking about, it took me two years! Then one day I told him That if he wasn't going to be serious about dating me I was going to find another person to have that that I wanted. And one week was all it took to make him change. Last weekend on our dinner anniversary he told me he got really scared after I told that to him. He said he put his act together aND here we are. We love each other a lot and we are going to make this work everyday.








.....

My advice is forget about posting in this forum and stop visiting this site daily!!!!! I bet you do it and that creates anxiety!!! Do it once a week then once every two weeks and then once a month. That helped me to live my life better