Thank you guys 🙏 yes I really like Neville! Does anyone ever feel like they put so much energy into something and things start working out and then boom everything that you got going your way falls apart again?! I’ve noticed that it often happens to me and I do live in the moment and enjoy what’s going on and try to ignore any negative thought but there are occasions where I find myself slipping a little and giving into them. I guess I know the answer is to just ignore everything and focus on what you want, I’m just feeling a little discouraged today.

My boyfriend and I are back together after 4 long months and everything is amazing! I wanted to write this to thank moonbug and fizzy for there encouraging messages when I was feeling my lowest, it meant a lot to me and kept me going so thank you ❤️

LOA learner wrote:

can someone help me to deal with fear while manifesting about my POI or SP because he rejected me i feel the fear that he will get hitched with someone else by this year as he told me this while rejection. please help me what do i do in this situation what techniques to use to remove this fear?? 

 

 
You could try Brad Yates eft tapping, I’ve heard that really helps people. Why are you worried he’s going to get married? Is he even seeing anyone at the moment or is he just trying to get a rise out of you by saying that? :/

MoonBug wrote:

Hi Anonymous!

Just a couple of thoughts, starting here where you wrote: “he’s so good at hiding his feelings and he’s really sensitive”. There’s another version of him that on some level you’re aware of, and must have experienced at some point to some degree, where he’s expressive and articulate with his feelings. The version you’re currently seeing is the one reflecting your belief that you looked horrible, among other things. You need to revise this belief about yourself, even if it’s only a temporary one. The eyes of love see only beauty, showered or not. See yourself with those eyes, and the him that is you pushed out will reflect that back to you eventually. It couldn’t hurt to imagine him feeling secure in himself, too. It sounds like he’s insecure, and that’s why he blocked you again. See him feeling good about sharing positive emotions, feeling safe to share with others. That would be a loving revision for him, which I bet you'll get to experience directed at you someday soon — without the phone malfunction! If you keep affirming that he’s good at hiding his feelings, and being “Done” with relationships, then you’ll create situations that make that a reality, like the interrupted FaceTime.

 
This was actually extremely helpful and I didn’t even realize how I was thinking about him and the situation it was creating. And I always think I’m so observant 🤣 thank you! And you’re right, I need to be more careful about the way I see myself at times 😅 it’s funny because I’ve noticed the way I feel about myself really changes the way others including my sp sees me. Like when I’m feeling cute even with no makeup on and not showered my sp will usually say something like “there’s something about you today” and give me lots of compliments. He always thinks I look beautiful even when I’m super sick and in need of hygiene lol but I remember one time I was just having a bad day and feeling

So I changed my name but my story was that my boyfriend thought I cheated on him ( I absolutely did not) and broke up with me and cut off all contact, blocking me from everything. As of now he lives in another state where we were supposed to move together. It seemed impossible that he would ever contact me again, he’s so good at hiding his feelings and he’s really sensitive so once he’s done with someone he’s really good at just being done. So he contacted me and unblocked me almost two weeks ago after 3 months of no contact and acted pretty nonchalant saying things like I should date other people ( Which I know 100 percent he didn’t mean, I could tell by the way he was saying it) but then he ended up FaceTiming me and I kept telling him no because I looked horrible and hadn’t even showered that day lol but he insisted that he wanted to see my face and got a really sad look on his face and told me I look beautiful when I answered and I’m such a cry baby that I just started crying after that. The conversation was going well then his phone died. He FaceTimed back once it charged but seemed upset and he got really upset and just said I’m going to sleep now bye and hung up on me!! Whatever that was rude and upset me and made me feel anxious but I thought at least we’re making progress. I text him tonight and I’m blocked again! Wtf universe, be on my side!!! I’m the good side! I feel frustrated and annoyed aarrrgggg  (furious)