Oh thanks!!! thats really re-assuring to hear!!! you guys together now?

Hi all! I have been reading the success stories today to pick me up cause not at my best. And i would like your take on things.
Ok so today i was suppose to meet C to solve the last technicality (his mobile number is still under my name for these 3 months we are apart) He cancelled on me cause he was not well apparently.  I thought maybe the delay is a good thing and he needs some time to be more ready to see me.
On the other hand i found out that him and the rebound were away last weekend to a romantic island and that she announced to one of both their colleagues that they are together. Big step cause they work at a school and relationships are frawned upon.

I read all these success stories and it does keep me going but i see most people had contact with their SP. when i am calm i have a gut feeling we will be together (and its the first i have this kind of feeling about anyone) but sometimes i wonder if the absolutely no contact from his side (to see if i am ok or anything) plus the rebound are making this veryyyyyy hard.

Hi! again
I am keeping my mood and my vibes 90% of the time. Just now i had to delete and re-install viber and it lost all my previous conversations with my fiance even though i never went back to read our past messages i liked having it on my phone. I am a bit upset, but i try to see it as a chance to write more amazing dialogues the 2 of us in the future and not as a sign to delete him.

Encouragement please

 

I agree, no need to discuss what happened anymore. Its the past and the only thing that matters is the result

Oasiscalm wrote:

Cottoncandy wrote:

Awhh. If I may know why did your fiancé left? Yeah, I understand the dilemma. I told my love that I missed him because I thought that things were getting better, and he became more distant after. But I think it really depends on your situation.

Why does it matter why her fiancé left? That is an old story, there is no need for her to keep looking back to that matter? She does not to perpetuate an old dialogue

At its basis the process is the same whatever the history of a person's situation.

Yes you are right. No plan for me then. I will see him on tuesday and feel if i want to tell him or not. i will let it be and see how it goes

Thank you for you advise all