I would totally be interested.  I actually am a member of a couple of others but I like the idea of joining one from this group of folks.  

I just sent this to my daughter.  This is what works for me.

Manifesting:

Imagine you already have what you want, feel the relief of having it.  Feel like things have been worked out and you and you are no longer anxious and things are the way you want them!  Get into feeling like you everything is resolved and nothing is in your way. 

If you want, do a visualization technique to get you to this feeling space and allow the Universe to take care of the rest.  It's the feeling not the technique that brings you what you want.  Focus on the feeling of how you want things to be.  Practice this and allow....  
  
As for doubts.  You’re going to have them. Ask for help when you feel you need it, release and “pray, meditate, distract yourself, whatever… Or better yet, don’t worry about it and realize it’s normal!   
   
I don’t care what’s going on in the now, all you need to do is know, know that what you want is on its way.  That’s it.  No work involved.  

Allow the U to take care of the details.  Just get into the feeling of how you want things to be.  

This is how the universe works. The more you know and feel like you have this thing, the faster it is supposed to happen. 

 A lot of LOA people say you have to feel “good” to manifest, I say bullsh*t.   My BFF says bullsh*t. 

Feeling good is not the secret to manifesting, knowing what you want is coming is.  Think of something you already have in the physical world, feeling bad does not change the fact that you have it.  

Imagine if no one ever said to you have to work hard for that or you can’t have this or that. Imagine if you grew up thinking you just have to feel it and it will come.  You’d be manifesting **** all the time.  Stop telling yourself you have to *&^%$ change, you DON’T!  You are good just the way you are!

Anyway, that's my two cents.  

sillyromantic wrote:

I personally try to catch myself if I'm feeling that way and immediately replace whatever is in my head with positive affirmations. I also have this strong belief that my ex's relationship with the girl he left me for is not going to last and is doomed from the beginning. I'm also getting little signs that they are not going as strong as he moved 2 hours away out of town/state and I believe that she didn't move there with him or I just try not to think of them or her at all. I guess different things work for different people but the biggest part is working on you, your self worth, and if it's upsetting you maybe you should start no contact again. Even when I was tempted to reach out I kept no contact and my ex contacted me on his own terms.

Hey SR, thanks so much for the response.  Sorry for the late reply, I've been stupid busy lately.  Anyway, really good advice, thanks so much.  I will definitely keep what you said in mind and practice it.   

I think it's all about putting it out there and "knowing" (which is a mode you get yourself into) it's going to happen and there are many different ways you can do that.  As Cynthia says, she lives from the end and feels it real.  For me what has worked in the past is just "knowing" that what I want is going to happen and not worrying about the when or how (the when or how is not your job, it's the Universes/your inner being's job) but I didn't live feeling as if I already had it, I just knew it would come.  I think any tool that can get you into that state of knowing is what does it.  You just have to figure out which tools feel and work best for you and there are a lot of them out there.

Can I also suggest you "go general"?  And not force yourself to think the complete opposite of what you are fearing?  I think if you force those things, sometimes it just makes you feel worse.  

For example, instead of telling yourself "He loves me, I know he does, it's meant to be, I know LOA will work." if you are unsure of these things, instead say things like "A lot of couples have stuff they need to work on and work through, it's normal. - there are a lot of people who say law of attraction allowed them to attract/keep a specific person, no reason I should be any different - a lot of couples break up and get back together"  Etc.  I have learned this softens your resistance and helps you feel a lot calmer about things rather than "forcing" your thoughts to be opposite of what they are.  Does that make sense?  (I can also pretty much guarentee you if he didn't want you in his life, he would not be trying to spend time with you) 

Also, when you start to freak out about him not contacting you, CALM YOURSELF.  Picture him getting lost in a video game or working late or something along those lines.  I would highly recommend you work on calming yourself more than anything else.  Remember, LOA works both ways so if you are freaking out about what he does or doe

Thank you both so much!
Cynthia, will do!
Ori, thanks so much for reminding me of limiting beliefs.  I forget myself sometimes.

Oh yeah, and came across this...  It was pretty helpful.  
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnceOcNvzLw&t=335s