Ok. So first you can acknowledge that you are a powerful creator! Seriously well done lol. And perhaps let yourself off the hook and begin again this time from a place of love. Love is more powerful than fear, so if you can do that with your ill intent, imagine what you can achieve through love?

Trust that everything that is unfolding is happening to bring about exactly what you desire. Rest in the assumption that it's all happening behind the scenes to bring you the relationship you truly desire.

We co-create. Who knows why exactly she is experiencing what she is.. Did she create it? Probably. Did Craig co-create? Perhaps. The only takeaway you really need though is where things are headed. We know that actions in fear don't net what you ideally want. We know that love opens the floodgates to everything you want. What is most important is that Craig aligns with the fact that EVERYTHING occurring right now is bringing him closer to his manifestation. If he can focus on that alone, and simply trust the process, the outcome will astound him.

I think we can create our own life, or rather our own happiness, and we have a choice to co-create with others. But I'm skeptical about having the power to control every aspect of what we experience or what others experience. And the idea that we attract absolutely everything in our experience - that we control our reality 100% - is equally liberating as it is disempowering. After all, it would be disheartening if a father told his kid "Son, you create your reality, so you manifested terrorism overseas."

I did some research on this from Bashar and I think he said that our reality (as we experience it as an individual) is whatever we define it to be. We can attract different versions/aspects of people in our reality and someone else can attract different versions/aspects of people in his reality. So a man trying to have a relationship with a specific person might define her as hard to get in his reality and he attracts that, meanwhile the case may be very different in her reality. So instead of being many different minds in one world, it's like we're many worlds in a connected power mind. I'm not sure if this is true but it's hard to see from being an average guy spending his morning watching dog vids on Youtube.

Anyway, I approach LoA stuff as more of a way of living instead of literal truth. For Craig (and all of us), I guess the most important practical thing is to seek alignment first by feeling better.

By the way, is there karma when working with LoA? Some people think that there is a Law of Karma as well as a Law of Attraction, and some say that karma doesn't exist. Or maybe our karma exists only in our minds by what we feel or experience thanks to the thoughts we think? Either way, I think being happy is the best revenge.

Karma is not something I personally believe in. That doesn't resonate with me at all, and so I completely don't embrace it! Therefore in my reality it doesn't exist. I think in terms of terrorism etc, as a collective we all influence what happens on earth. And my only focus becomes one of love. One of understanding and knowing that all is well in this world. That we are safe, secure, abundant.